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New
Porn for Women Linklist
It's
taken me forever, but I finally have a linklist called Ms
Naughty Porn for Women. The site has erotic links, a blog,
articles and more. Now that Google is having a love affair with
linklists, I hope I can nudge my way into some decent rankings
so women can find good porn.
I found this terrible "porn for women" site listed
quite high in Yahoo. It listed two gay sites as being for women,
and there was just no way that women would have liked them.
One had guys sticking dildoes up their bums, the other had gay
hardcore. My new linklist will not list sites that are gay or
pretend to be "porn for women" like this one.
Now
it's "Chick Porn"
There's
been a few articles about "chick porn" recently. Not sure why
the media like to call it that, but it's good to see women's
erotica getting some publicity.
The Age newspaper has just published a look at Candida Royalle's
movies. "It's called chick porn, pornography that is made by
women for women, and it's now doing for the X-rated film industry
what Playboy did for the nude centrefold 50 years ago - legitimising
explicit sexual entertainment for the mainstream." Full article here.
For The Girls was also featured in Cleo magazine, which was
great.
I also wrote an article about chick
porn.
Meanwhile, Playgirl
has been launched in Russia. It seems that Russian women
aren't used to seeing circumcised men. More interesting is the
fact that photos of erect penises are legal in Russia. As erotica,
Playgirl cannot publish photographs depicting sexual intercourse
and has a quota for the number of large pictures of penises
in each issue: six, Chermenskaya said. Despite the precautions,
Chermenskaya is still a bit worried. "We're legal, but we're
still worried because most of the people in power in Russia
are men," she said. "They might not want their wives or lovers
seeing nice, big erect penises."
They're illegal in Australia. When Australian
Women's Forum was still publishing, they'd get out the protractor
to measure if the dick was officially erect or not.
Parody of Anti Porn Crusaders
There's
a stirring parody of those anti-porn crusaders who say that
porn is addictive. Exexexchurch asserts that church is addictive but says it can be overcome
through the use of porn.
New
Sites
Men
Licking Clit
The
Kissing Site
Quirky
Sex
- Posted by Karen 17 June 2004
May
is Masturbation Month... so enjoy your porn!
That's
right girls, a whole month to celebrate the joy of self-lovin'!
So indulge your senses, and just do it! With so much good porn
for women around, you might as well!
Been very busy promoting For
The Girls. We're due to appear in a magazine article soon!
I
made a new major movie site called Couples
Pleasure Dome. This site has scenes from full-length DVD
movies, and I chose them all because they will appeal to women
and couples. Of course, they're not perfect, but at least they
all have cunnilingus in them, and some storyline. You get access
to all the other sites in the network with this one, so you
get thousands of movies for the price of buying a DVD.
I think movies will be the next big thing in internet porn,
as more people get broadband access. Unfortunately the vast
majority of movies are made for men, and it's harder to adapt
them for female audiences. Still I chose the best ones out there.
Also
revamped the tours and inside of Pure
Cunnilingus and The
Autofellatio Site. I'm getting pretty fabulous with photoshop
now. Gotta revamp a few other things so they look more professional.
Made
a free site - Orgasmic
Male Faces. This features pics where you can actually see
the guy's face when he comes. Porn very rarely shows a man's
face during orgasm - the focus is always on semen. This is because
most porn is for men and semen is their visual experience of
male orgasm. For women, however, it's always his face that we
see. So I thought I'd make a site that showed male faces at
that point of ecstasy. It's much more human. And a man is very
vulnerable and completely himself at that point. The industry
is SO goddam obsessed with the cumshot, I'm sick of it.
- Posted by Karen 3 May 2004
Porn
Movies for Women
I'm
in the middle of creating an information site called Porn
Movies for Women. It's not finished yet. It's a really big
job, trying to sort through a gazillion movies, trying to stop
the ones which women may enjoy. Candida Royalle helps, of course,
but I'm relying on other recommendations for the more mainstream
movies.
One of the silliest ones I've seen is a movie called "For
Women Only" (directed by a man) and it contains all the
usual porn cliches. Sigh. There's a link to it on the new site.
If nothing else, I'm now a lot more knowledgeable about what
porn movies are out there!
- Posted by Karen 2 April 2004
Heterosexual,
vanilla Erotica for Women
It
has occurred to me that my little endeavour of bringing porn
to heterosexual, vanilla women is encountering distinct walls
of assumption and prejudice.
I get the usual "women don't like porn" stuff from
male adult webmasters, but I'm starting to realise there's another
element of vague hostility or disdain.
There's an entire niche of erotica for women which is awfully
highbrow. This is erotica, dahling, and it's always tasteful
and intellectual and very very important. Not that there's anything
wrong with that, I like smart tasteful smut as much as the next
woman.
What I don't like is the idea that this is all women should
have. That this sort of stuff IS erotica for women, and that's
ALL it is. That women ONLY like the highbrow stuff.
I don't doubt that there are plenty of horny hetero women out
there who are very keen to see down and dirty hardcore. I know
I'm one of them. But we're still wanting to see it without all
the facials and sexism. This is what I'm trying to offer.
And I'm trying to offer it to everyday women. Not just university
trained intellectuals or lesbians or goths or alterna-anything
chicks. Just average women, maybe married, maybe single, who
aren't necessarily "erotically literate" but who want
to get off without feeling insulted.
In doing so, I can be dismissed by others as a mere pornographer,
or as a woman who is trying to make other women act like men,
or bring them down somehow. And that's not what I'm doing!!
Of course, this week I created a highbrow intellectual site
called Goddess
Erotica. Maybe to prove I can have my smutty nose in the
air with the best of them.
Ladies...
can we get over the "porn for women is gay" thing?
Sheesh.
I had the misfortune of having one of my naked men galleries
listed on fark.com the other day. I got a huge spike of traffic,
but it seems everyone only came by to make sarcastic comments.
140 of them, most of which were "He's gay!"
Fark is in the habit of posting links to "boobies"
or "weeners". Every single "weener" link
results in the same comments... that the guy in the photos is
gay.
The guy in my photos was blond, fairly beefy, kinda hairy, and
holding a surfboard. And he was smiling. I thought he looked
particularly un-gay, which is why I chose those photos!
What I find frustrating is that these same women are complaining
that there's no porn out there for them. I'm trying, goddamit!
And what makes you assume that every photo of a naked man is
of a gay man, for gay men?
It doesn't help that Fark deems all "weeners" links
to be for women. I'd dearly love to post a link to some of my
story or couples sites, but that isn't going to happen.
OK, vent over. I've just spent an awful lot of time over the
last two weeks creating a new classy erotica site called Goddess
Erotica. I think it looks nice. Now I have to promote it...
Meanwhile, For The Girls has a new tour, and is going really well!! The promotional week
I had went fabulously, and now a lot more people know we exist.
YAY.
- Posted by Karen 25 March 2004
I'm
back... and women's porn is in the news again
Been
away for a few weeks, and now I'm back "beavering"
away on my gazillion porn sites, trying to change links left
right and centre. The paysites Ladies Secret and Red Hot Guys
are no longer operating, so I'm going through all my sites and
taking down their banners.
Of course, this leaves a big gap in the market for For The Girls.
I've got a big promotional week ahead of me :)
Meanwhile, women's porn is in the news again. In February the
New York Times deigned to write about women and porn. It's mainly
due to the Sweet Action girls and their extremely successful
promo blitz. They've succeeded in making the media take notice,
and suddenly "women like porn" is the new buzz.
I guess I'm jealous. I'd love that kind of publicity. What's
interesting is that it's because Sweet Action is a print mag...
there's something about hard copy that seems to have made it
real to the media. The vibe I get is that internet porn is still
all sleazy or non-legitimate, but if it's in a magazine, it
must be good.
What's also interesting has been the "youth" angle.
Suddenly, they're all out to say "Playgirl is soooo passe,
these chicks are hip and groovy and young, this is what women
really want." This has just made me realise (once again)
that women have extremely varied tastes, and that while the
skinny every day guys that appear in Sweet Action will appeal
to some women, they won't appeal to all.
Don't get me wrong, I can only admire the Sweet Action girls,
they're fighting the good fight. They do have a hard road ahead,
especially as they've taken on hard copy magazine publishing
when every other smut mag is losing readers. At the same time,
the women's smut mag market is pretty much wide open, so they
do have an opportunity, and the press are certainly helping
them get out there.
Tomorrow I'm going on the Darren Austin show with the Sweet
Action girls, and Cathedra, to talk about porn for women. Here's
hoping Darren remembers to ring me at the right time.
One of the interesting figures coming out of the NY Times article
was the latest statistics. According to Neilsen Netratings,
10 million American women went looking for porn in December
(as opposed to 9 million in September). And another company,
ComScore Media Matrix, said 42% of porn surfers were women,
with the highest rates among women aged 18 to 34.
That 42% figure may be a bit high, and lord knows all the male
webmasters immediately said "yeah, but they don't BUY".
Even so, I find it very VERY encouraging.
Now... if I can just get the courage up to out myself as a pornographer
I could do my own media blitz...
Women
left searching for porn
Google
is reindexing again, and the results are worse than before.
Interestingly, a search on naked men brings up a gay man's blog
where he is discussing whether women look at porn. There are
several reply posts, one of which is a woman who said she'd
spent two hours looking for information about porn for women
and couldn't find any.
All I can say is it's frustrating. I'm in this to make money,
but I also want to offer women an alternative, something different
and positive. But what's the use if they never find it. No doubt
plenty of women having been settling for gay sites for the last
two months.
One of the changes Google seems to have made is that it's filtering
out sites where the keyword is in the domain name. Even though
this is designed to attack spammers, it's such a retrograde
step, it seriously reduces the chances of finding a site that
is comprehensively and legitimately about that topic.
I was researching for an article yesterday, and needed to find
information about multiple orgasms. Not porn sites, or photos
or anything, just authoritative info. I gave up and went to
Yahoo. Google's results were absolutely pathetic. Worryingly,
it kept giving an obscure Chinese sex advice site top billing,
and this site had some serious factual errors!
Anyway, I'm going to keep building relevant sites. Google will
wake up to itself soon or will lose it's #1 billing.
Meanwhile, I've put Naked
Men News on its own domain! I think this will be a fun site
to keep updated.
I'm also feeling very angry right now. Comments I made on a
board discussion about the objectification of women in porn
have been plagiarised on another board. It's just so goddam
rude, I'm fuming. I've let my feelings be known in the relevant
thread.
-Posted by Karen 30 January 2004
New
articles on porn for women
I've
written up a few articles and put them on the Porn
for Women Biz site. These articles include:
Does
porn really "objectify" women?
Porn
and the belief that women aren't visual
What
kind of porn do women like?
What
women think when watching mainstream porn? (Funny)
Defining
good porn photos for women.
-
Posted by Karen 23rd January 2004
Muff
Diving
I've
made up a little site devoted to the wonderful thing that is muff diving. Will add
more in the future.
How
to find porn for women
In
late November Google implemented a new algorithm that changes
the way it searches, and, to put it bluntly, it sucks. A lot
of searches have stopped being relevant and now offer up very
dodgy results. One such search is "porn for women"
(without the "s). At present if you type porn for women
into Google you get a number of largely irrelevant magazine
articles about porn in general, some vague mentions in blogs,
and even a rabid anti-porn (and anti-everything) site run by
women. The current search is not useful in helping women to
find porn.
Thus, if you're looking for good porn for women, you can do
a number of things. One is to include quotation marks "
in your searches. This makes Google take the entire phrase into
account. Or you could try Yahoo which hasn't adopted the latest
algorithm and gives vaguely sensible results. Alternately you
could just visit the Porn
for Women Network and check out all the listings there.
If you type in porn for
women photos you get a few decent results.
I've also started a new site called Porn for Women (strangely
enough) which will have listings and articles, among other things.
-Posted by Karen 12 January 2004
More
proof that women like porn
Another bit
of research proves that women get turned on by erotic videos.
This time the research was done by the Stanford medical school
in California and showed that women can actually be turned on
by erotic videos faster than men. When showed porn movies without
sound, the women were becoming aroused within two minutes.
I suspect it will still take another ten or twenty of these
studies before a lot of porn webmasters stop telling me that
women aren't visual. Their loss. :)
- Posted by Karen 21 December 2003
Erotica
for Women and irrationality
A study by Canadian psychologists found that when men see a pretty woman,
it interferes with their ability to make decisions about the
future. They "go weak in the presence of beauty."
If an attractive woman is in front of them, their rational thought
processes are disturbed... it's all "here and now"
for them.
Women, on the other hand, do not experience any difficulty when
faced with a handsome man.
This is an important factor in offering erotica to women. They
don't go temporarily insane because there's a good looking naked
man in front of them. They still know they will have to pay
the bills next week, even if they're horny. So erotica for women
always has to be good value for money. I think For
The Girls offers that kind of value. We know that a woman
is forking out her hard earned and she want's something worthwhile
for her cash. I think the quality of our photos AND the entire
women's magazine make it a good deal :)
Women's
Erotica IS different!
OK...
I finally have a scientific response to those people who say
that "hardcore is just hardcore, couples don't belong in
the 4women section".
From BBC
Horizon site:
The
reason it seems is that for women, being turned on sexually
is more to do with the brain than the pelvis. Dr Ellen Laan
turned to erotic videos to try to understand the female sexual
response. She showed women two films. One concentrated on the
man's pleasure; one on the woman's. Her subjects experienced
increased vaginal blood flow with both films, but only reported
being turned on by the film that was more focussed on female
pleasure. Laan deduced that - unlike men - for women the genitals
are not the best indicator of arousal.
See
guys: "more
focussed on female pleasure"! It's not rocket science you
know! Although this concept does seem to involve thinking outside
of the male viewpoint which seems enormously difficult for some
to achieve...
Seventeen
Years Since The First Erotica Film for Women
...
and not enough has changed.
Candida
Royalle made a huge breakthrough in the mid eighties with
her Femme series of films, the first adult movies made from
a female perspective. Today there still aren't enough of these
videos, so the Femme series remains popular. Candida's site
is great, but the most interesting page is her "behind the scenes"
stories of making the Femme films. She details her efforts to
make erotica that reflected the experiences of women, and the
problems (and success) she encountered. So much of her philosophy
is spot-on, and I can only stand and applaud that she did all
this in the eighties, with so little support.
What's also interesting is that Candida had to put up with EXACTLY
THE SAME male responses 17 years ago that I get now. Back then
male porn gurus were saying her films would fail simply because
she didn't have "the money shot! And today so many other
webmasters keep saying to me "Women aren't visual" and "Women
don't like porn." Which is what they said to Candida. She proved
them wrong then, and For The Girls is proving them now :)
Posted
by Karen 10 Dec 2003
PS
- I've made a new site, it's called Naked
Men News!
Erotica
for Women set to grow.
A
few weeks ago Nielsen Netratings published the results of their
latest survey of surfing habits. It turns out that a third of
visitors to porn sites are women, and that in September alone
9.5 million American women intentionally accessed porn sites.
These statistics came as a shock to an awful lot of porn webmasters,
but no surprise to me at all. I KNEW women wanted to look at
porn, but the porn industry simply wasn't prepared to respond
to that need. So many stereotypes got in the way: "women
aren't visual, women' don't buy porn" etc etc. Even now
I face stubborn resistance to the idea that women might want
to enjoy porn.
Of course, others couldn't help but notice the flashing light
that the Nielsen statistics presented. Suddenly people were
looking at their membership logs, and realising that a decent
percentage of women were joining their male-focused porn sites.
They were shocked.
(I, meanwhile, was feeling a little smug. LOL)
This survey doesn't change the fact that women want their own
form of erotica, one that reflects their own experiences of
sex and sensuality. It's a goal of mine to ensure that women
can firstly find this kind of content, as well as enjoy it.
I've written an article on the survey, as well as possible reasons
why women aren't rushing out to spend money on porn in the way
that men do. Yes,
Women do buy porn.
I also did an interview with Webmaster vault about the issue
of erotica for women, here.
Please note - both those articles are aimed at adult webmasters,
not surfers. But it gives an idea of the kind of stuff I'm trying
to do. This industry needs to wake up and start providing women
with decent porn!
Posted by Karen 7 Dec 2003
Erotica
For Women Blog
I
haven't posted for a while because I've been very busy with
my site For The Girls.
It's hard work keeping a site like this up to date, I'm constantly
writing new articles, and columns, looking for more good pics,
advertising... I'm very proud of For The Girls, and it's picking
up steam. We have more members and they seem to be staying,
which is good news. We'll have a new tour up shortly and more
porn bloopers which is one of the more fun parts of the site.
There's
a new women's erotica site out called Sssh.com It all looks very classy, it even has Shakespearean quotes all
over it. The photos are good quality, although we have HEAPS
more at FTG (we are the best, did I mention that?) but they
did have a lot of articles which were very interesting.
One of the stranger aspects of Sssh.com is that it has "warnings"
on each of its galleries, so that the unsuspecting female surfer
can judge if the pics might be a bit too naughty for her. I
thought this was a retrograde step actually. If a woman has
taken the step and bought a membership to an erotica site, chances
are they WANT to see the really hardcore stuff.
A female webmaster recently expressed her frustration that so
many women's erotica sites rely on the colour pink in their
design. I think this "warning" thing is a little similar.
No-one seems ready to accept the full-blown horny woman just
as she is. It has to be dressed up in a girly manner somehow...
I don't doubt that there are lots of women out there for whom
porn is something new or slightly scary, but pussyfooting around
isn't going to help. Just my thoughts...
There's
a review of SSsh.com and other women's erotica sites over at Porn
Sites for Women Reviews.
The
Rules of Porn... and what they SHOULD BE
The
following is a list of "rules" that seem to apply
to every porn film and photo set ever shot.
1. Women wear high heels to bed.
2. Men are never impotent.
3. When going down on a woman 10 seconds is more than satisfactory.
4. If a woman gets busted masturbating by a strange man, she
will not scream with embarrassment, but rather insist he have
sex with her.
5. Women smile appreciatively when men splat them in the face
with sperm.
6. Women enjoy having sex with ugly, middle-aged men.
7. Women moan uncontrollably when giving a blowjob.
8. Women always orgasm when men do.
9. A blowjob will always get a woman off a speeding ticket.
10. All women are noisy fucks.
11. People in the 70s couldn't fuck unless there was a wild
guitar solo in the background.
12. Those tits are real.
13. A common and enjoyable sexual practice for a man is to take
his half-erect penis and slap it repeatedly on a woman's butt.
14. Men always groan "OH YEAH!" when they cum.
15. If there is two of them they "high five" each
other. (and the girl isn't disgusted!)
16. Double penetration makes women smile.
17. Asian men don't exist.
18. If you come across a guy and his girlfriend having sex in
the bushes, the boyfriend won't bash seven shades of shit out
of you if you shove your cock in his girlfriend's mouth.
19. There's a plot.
20. When taking a woman from behind, a man can really excite
a woman by giving her a gentle slap on the butt.
21. Nurses suck patient's cocks.
22. Men always pull out.
23. When your girlfriend busts you getting head from her best
friend, she'll only be momentarily pissed off before fucking
the both of you.
24. Women never have headaches... or periods.
25. When a woman is sucking a man's cock, it's important for
him to remind her to "suck it".
26. Assholes are clean.
27. A man ejaculating on a woman's butt is a satisfying result
for all parties concerned.
28. Women always look pleasantly surprised when they open a
man's trousers and find a cock there.
29. Men don't have to beg.
30. When standing during a blowjob, a man will always place
one hand firmly on the back of the kneeling woman's head and
the other proudly on his hip.
So,
I've made up a list of what SHOULD be the rules of porn, and
hopefully we'll see much more of these once women take over
the industry (muhwahahahah!)
1.
Men love cunnilingus and their tongues never get tired
2. Every man knows where the clitoris is
3. Small boobs, bellies, pubic hair are all extremely sexy
4. Men who smile are the greatest lovers
5. Every man works out
6. When a man ejaculates, you only ever see his face
7. All orgasms in porn are real
8. Women don’t have to tell men what to do during sex, they
always automatically know
9. Even when strangers have sex, the man will always know the
right way to pleasure the woman
10. An erotic encounter may well end in marriage
(?)
PS - We're trying to make more of these new rules a reality
at For The Girls Erotica
for Women Ezine! Click here to see what porn SHOULD be like!
A
New Erotica for Women Megasite Opens
It's
been a few months in the making, but I'm pleased to announce
the launch of a new site for women, one half owned by me! For
The Girls is brand new and it has everything that I have
always thought a good women's smut site should have
My biz partner and I have done our best to find good quality
content that women will like - so our naked men are straight,
good looking and don't hold open their bums! Likewise, our couples
pics are all very female-friendly, and range from romantic to
hardcore. We've also found some cool fetish, lesbian and amateur
couples to keep it spicy. We rejected sets and photos with cumshots,
or pics where the woman was staring at the camera. And we're
pleased to say we have photos that feature the full spectrum
of sex, from kissing, cuddles and foreplay through to orgasm
and afterglow. These photos (and movies) reflect what we think
women's erotica should be! If they didn't turn us on, they didn't
make the grade. So you know that you're getting erotica for
women, by women!
The other big aspect of For
The Girls is that it is also a women's ezine. I've gathered
together a lot of my articles and columns, as well as writing
a whole heaps of new stuff. So I've got articles on autofellatio,
the history of the vibrator, real vampires and other slightly
strange sexual topics, plus archived columns about the world
of sex. There's also lots of humour and advice - I've even persuaded
my dear friend Grandma Scrotum to offer her own brand of hand-knitted
sexual wisdom. We've got Luke on hand to answer questions about
boy stuff, as well as fun things like games, e-cards, sex toy
reviews and more.
And I also have to mention our hilarious male strip search
movies. Have you seen that bit in The Full Monty when Robert
Carlyle attempts his first strip, cigarette in mouth? Well these
guys could have been in that move... we gathered a bunch of
amateur blokes and filmed them stripping. One thing we know
for certain - white men CANNOT dance!
There's a lot more, but I won't bore you. All I can say
is please head over and have a look at the tour... I've worked
very hard to create the sort of site that women really want,
and I think that it's well worth a visit. I hope that you will
think so too.
Click here to visit
For The Girls Ezine and Erotica for Women
Madonna's Erotica Book Sex - A Good Example of
Quality Erotica for Women!
I
had a chance to peruse through Madonna's 1992 book Sex the other day, and it got me thinking about erotica for women.
 Madonna's
book contains numerous photographs of Madonna in various stages
of undress, posing in sexual situations. No real sex is shown,
however the photos include depictions of cunnilingus, spanking,
fetish, lesbianism, interracial sex, threesomes and even rape.
The premise is that Madonna is exploring her own sexual fantasies
through photography, and that none of the written depictions
reflect reality.
I thought the book was very arousing. A lot of the situations
reflect many women's sexual fantasies, not just Madonna's. Nancy
Friday's book My
Secret Garden revealed that
many women dream of just these sorts of sexual encounters. Naturally,
any decent women's erotica deals with women's fantasies.
The book's lack of explicitness adds to its appeal, I think,
because it gives the imagination a little more scope than hardcore
porn. At the same time, the very fact that a celebrity such
as Madonna is naked and exposed in this book adds an element
of shock to the titillation factor.
The power relationships in Sex are definitely in the
woman's favour. There is a photograph of Madonna receiving cunnilingus
from a giant biker in an alleyway. I think this pic is the epitome
of Madonna's sexual philosophy - she is in charge, no matter
how powerful the man may seem. Again, good erotica for women
should reflect this kind of power.
Perhaps more importantly, Madonna's Sex is a prime example
of women's erotica because Madonna herself is always being given
pleasure. That is, a woman, rather than a man is the centre
of attention. So much mainstream porn and erotica is written
for the male viewer, but Madonna reversed this; everyone else
in the photos exist purely to give her satisfaction
I can only conclude that Madonna's Sex book could almost
be considered the godmother today's erotica for women on the
internet. It's now over ten years old, but the book still impresses
with it's boundary-breaking sexuality. And those who are seeking
to create good erotica for women should go back and have a look
at this book. There are enough ideas here to create hundreds
of erotica for women sites! :D
Click
here to buy Madonna's Sex at Amazon
Click
here to buy Madonna's album Erotica
Erotica
For Women * Erotica For Women * Erotica Fiction for Women...
Erotica
for women often makes heavy use of the erotic story. Fiction
seems to be the thing that really fires up our engines. And
Lord knows it can be a pleasurable thing to indulge in pure
fantasy, to create scenarios, to imagine our perfect man, giving
us the perfect orgasm.
Erotic fiction does require a bit more time, and a bit more
build up than simply looking at erotic pictures. Do we simply
prefer to take our sweet time about getting horny? Or does fiction
allow our imaginations to expand, and to take us in directions
we never expected to go? Without doubt, erotic fiction makes
up a significant amount of online erotica for women.
I've often heard the phrase "women aren't visual".
I know from personal experience, and from a career in erotica
for women that women DO enjoy looking at sexually explicit photos,
and they DO become easily aroused. Indeed, recent studies into
arousal have shown that most women will get turned on by a porno
movie, no matter what the content.
Nonetheless, erotic fiction remains a favourite.
If you're after erotic fiction, you might want to visit Erotic
Story Vault. This is a mainstream story site, but you also
get access to Womens
Porno so
it's worth checking out
Erotica
For Women * Erotica For Women * Naked
Men...
Naked
men. It's what a lot of people think erotica for women is about.
Be it naked men with big
dicks, black hunks, latin babes, even nude
male celebrities the vast majority of available erotica
for women focuses on the naked man.
And,
no doubt, there are plenty of women out there who find looking
at naked men to be very arousing.
Personally,
I always prefer looking at couples photos, and sex photos. I
find them more of a turn on.
Which
is interesting. I've wondered why it is that I can happily admire
a naked man and find him sexy, but it does nothing for me in
terms of stoking up the fires down below. Is it because women
aren't trained to look at dicks? Chances are, our first experiences
with sexually explicit material was the dirty mag under the
bed, and the pics were all of women. Does this have an effect
on us later in life. If todays girls are sneaking a look at
women's erotica sites, will they feel more aroused and at home
with naked men when they're more mature?
The
perception that erotica for women = naked men is the one that
leads to so many horrible gay sites masquerading as women's
erotica. It seems there are a lot of stupid webmasters out there
who think that a horny woman thinks exactly like a gay man.
So we get pics of men with their butt cheeks spread apart, and
ads for gay sites where guys are sucking other guys dicks. Sigh.
Anyway,
you'll find heaps of links to erotica for women at Erotica
for Women Info
And
more erotica for women at these sites:
Naked
Straight Men
Women's Erotica Info
Naked Men for Women
Pure Cunnilingus
Erotica
For Women * Erotica For Women
What
is erotica for women?
Erotica
for women is photos of naked men. Naked men who aren't gay.
Often these naked men are the stuff our dreams and fantasies
are made of. Or they just have big dicks.
Erotica
for women is photos of couples having sex. Couples sharing intimacy,
kissing, enjoying hugs and laughing playfully together. It's
photos pf men lovingly giving women oral sex, and paying
constant attention to the clitoris during sex. It's photos of
eye contact during sex, and afterglow, and real, enjoyable sexual
experiences.
Erotica
for women is well written erotica with engaging storylines and
hot fantasy sex that appeals to women's secret dreams and desires.
Erotica
for women is controlling a man, and being controlled. It's sharing
a life, or sharing a moment. It's the fulfilment of an orgasm,
or a simple kiss. It's demanding everything a woman wishes,
and receiving it without inhibition or embarrassment.
Erotica
for women is a celebration of women's sexuality, of women's
capacity for pleasure, for love, for pain, for desire.
Erotica
for women is also becoming very popular. Why? Because the old
myth about women "not being visual" and "not
being turned on by porn" is disappearing. Women are taking
charge of their sexuality. They are enjoying sex, and enjoying
their right to look at and read about sex, from their own perspective.
Some
examples of erotica for women:
Porn for Women Network
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